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Happy New Year!!!!!

Happy New Year from Wining Wife®! I hope you had a wonderful holiday season and that you’re ready for all the things that 2018 will bring. I’m looking forward to writing more about life as I know it in the coming year.  Here’s a quick recap of where I’m at.

  • We added baby 4 to our family in May. I wound up with preeclampsia; luckily they caught it early enough to where it never became severe – and I was far enough along to where we could induce and Miss Ladybug is super-healthy and the happiest little gal. 
  • We also sent our oldest off to college. He’s loving it there. I had a harder time adjusting than I’d thought I would. I wrote about it for Raising World Children.  In addition to a 19 year old and an 8 month old, we have a 4 year old and a 2 year old. It gets pretty wild up in here! (What better reason to try new wines is there?)
  • Last year, I lost over 60 pounds and 22.5″ after starting to run again as part of a great running club.  I’ve signed up for a 12k in March and a half marathon in October, and I’m really looking forward to those races. I’m aiming to do a race each month.  I’m also thinking about adding hot yoga and boxing to my workout routine. 
  • I suffered from postpartum depression hitting pretty hard again at the end of the year – I’m glad I was running as it helps out a lot with the depression and anxiety. I also started using a team of planners, which is helping me to feel on top of everything that needs to get done. 
  • I started writing for a couple startups I’m really excited about. 
  • During NaNoWriMo, I completed just over 33,000 words of a novel, Dances With Crazy, that I’m hoping to finish over the next month.
  • I took a break from my handmade business so I had time to let go of  some things as I adjusted to being a mom of four, with a newborn and one who flew the nest. 

My word of the year for 2017 was “reclaim.” I wanted to take a moment and start to re-gather myself after having 3 kids in 4 years. I think I’ve done a good job toward that goal with starting to run again and working with Wining Husband to get our personal library set up and start making personal changes to our house we bought in 2016.  I also signed up for some beauty box subscriptions, and so I was able to rebuild the makeup wardrobe that my 4 year old destroyed when she was being a curious 2 1/2 year old. 

My word of the year for 2018 is “conquer.” This is the year I will conquer my fears. I will conquer my goals. I will be the best me I can be and really forge ahead. 

What are you looking forward to in 2018? Have you chosen a word of the year?

Five of My Favorite Cookie Recipes for #NationalCookieDay

Who doesn’t love cookies? I know I do. That’s why I’m sharing not one, but five of my favorite recipes for baking cookies in honor of #NationalCookieDay. I love making cookies during the holiday season, and what better day to do so? 

White Chocolate, Cranberry, and Macadamia Nut Cookies

These cookies are delicious and festive. The first time I made the white chocolate, cranberry, and macadamia nut cookies, I was editing the newsletter for Chico Natural Foods. The cookies had won their holiday cookie competition – and with very good reason. They are sweet without being too sweet. Make lots of them, because they wind up being gobbled up quickly.

Flourless Chocolate Cookies

I made these a few years back, and at my New Years Eve party, my friend’s daughter could not get enough of these. In addition to having no flour, these cookies also have no butter and no oil. These flourless chocolate cookies do have a lot of sugar in them so I save them as very special treats – like the holidays.

“Good Luck” Vegan Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookies

Maybe it’s superstition, maybe it really is “magic,” but every time I’ve made these cookies, something wonderful has happened. I just thought about it, and it’s been a little while since I’ve made them, so I think I’m definitely due. Good luck isn’t the only reason to make these oatmeal chocolate chip cookies, though. They are delicious, addictive, and fun to make – with or without following the ritual directions.

The Perfect Sugar Cookie Recipe

What’s Christmas time without sugar cookies cut and decorated with frosting and sprinkles? If you know me at all, then you know I get keyed up very easily when things don’t go my way in the kitchen. I’ve tried some sugar cookie recipes where the cookies burn easily or where they’re very difficult to transfer from the counter to the pan without tearing them. This sugar cookie recipe avoids both of these problems, making it perfect for using when children are involved in the creative cookie-making process.

Chocolate Peanut Butter Chip

Finally, these would go great with an older port you have sitting around if you want a supremely decadent dessert. You don’t have to have any wine, though, to enjoy these fantastic cookies – and these are my all time favorite. Believe me, you’re going to love the flavors of these chocolate peanut butter chip cookies

Please! Share your favorite cookie recipes in the comments. I need ideas for fun cookies to make with my kiddos for us to give as gifts to neighbors and friends!

Book Review: A Uterus is a Feature, Not a Bug by Sarah Lacy

“The mommy track” – that’s the terminology reserved for women in academia who also choose to have children. There is, to my knowledge no “daddy track,” although, in some offices men who have families struggle just as much to get promotions. This isn’t about men, though. This is about the fact that a woman, whose uterus has basically just stopped being an open wound and whose offspring is 100% dependent upon her or a bottle filled with formula for life often returns to work six weeks after having a baby. She may or may not be in need of physical therapy; she is still at risk for postpartum complications including postpartum preeclampsia. It’s about the fact that women need to fight for sick leave and even though research has shown that they perform better than their childless peers, mothers earn an average of over $10,000 less than their peers, held to higher standards than childless women, and passed over for promotions. 

In her book, A Uterus is a Feature, Not a Bug, Sarah Lacy talks about the need to value mothers in the workplace as we bring a lot of value to a company. Such work is valuable because mothers are key players when it comes to a company’s culture. I highly recommend this book – it’s a really great guide for how working moms can take over their careers and push forward, moving through the current ceilings that are trying to dock them from being successful in their positions. 

About A Uterus is a Feature, Not a Bug

• Hardcover: 320 pages
• Publisher: HarperBusiness (November 14, 2017)

A rallying cry for working mothers everywhere that demolishes the “distracted, emotional, weak” stereotype and definitively shows that these professionals are more focused, decisive, and stronger than any other force.

Working mothers aren’t a liability. They are assets you—and every manager and executive—want in your company, in your investment portfolio, and in your corner.

There is copious academic research showing the benefits of working mothers on families and the benefits to companies who give women longer and more flexible parental leave. There are even findings that demonstrate women with multiple children actually perform better at work than those with none or one.

Yet despite this concrete proof that working mothers are a lucrative asset, they still face the “Maternal Wall”—widespread unconscious bias about their abilities, contributions, and commitment. Nearly eighty percent of women are less likely to be hired if they have children—and are half as likely to be promoted. Mothers earn an average $11,000 less in salary and are held to higher punctuality and performance standards. Forty percent of Silicon Valley women said they felt the need to speak less about their family to be taken more seriously. Many have been told that having a second child would cost them a promotion.

Fortunately, this prejudice is slowly giving way to new attitudes, thanks to more women starting their own businesses, and companies like Netflix, Facebook, Apple, and Google implementing more parent-friendly policies. But the most important barrier to change isn’t about men. Women must rethink the way they see themselves after giving birth. As entrepreneur Sarah Lacy makes clear in this cogent, persuasive analysis and clarion cry, the strongest, most lucrative, and most ambitious time of a woman’s career may easily be after she sees a plus sign on a pregnancy test.

Purchase Links

HarperCollins | Amazon | Barnes & Noble

Photo by Geoffrey Ellis

About Sarah Lacy

Sarah Lacy is the founder, CEO, and editor-in-chief of the investigative tech news site She has been covering technology news and entrepreneurship for over fifteen years, with stints at BusinessWeek and TechCrunch before founding her own company while on maternity leave in 2011. She lives in San Francisco. Most importantly of all, she is the mother of two young children.

Follow Sarah on Twitter.

Be Mixed Zero Calorie Drink Mixer Review

I’m a fan of a good cocktail. But cocktails can get super-caloric and super unhealthy super fast. So, when I received a sample mixer from Be Mixed to try, I was excited.  After all, it’s not every day that you find a zero-calorie mixer that is on-trend with current cocktail flavors.  Overall, I enjoyed the mixer. 

About Be Mixed

Be Mixed was founded to provide people with tasty sugar-free cocktails. 

Be Mixed has 0 calories, no sugar, and is all-natural. There are three different flavors: 

  • Ginger Lime
  • Cucumber Mint
  • Margarita

The different mixes are crafted so that you can use your favorite spirit with the mix to create a cocktail that you love. The Be Mixed website has a variety of different recipes – the most simple being adding a bottle of mixer to a shot of alcohol and pouring it over ice. 

However, you can also find recipes for a spicy margarita (looks super-delicious), pomegranate Moscow mule, white sangria, pumpkin martini, ginger negroni, and much more.  I look forward to getting more of the mixer so that I can try some of the other fun recipes they have available. 

The Taste Test

I received the cucumber mint flavor of Be Mixed. Wining Husband mixed a shot of it with a shot of Fords Gin and served it over ice in old fashioned glasses (even though I photographed it with martini glasses). It was delicious, and it didn’t have that aftertaste you often get when you’re using sugar-free ingredients. You know the one I’m talking about. It’s not very pleasant. It was light, and super-refreshing. It was like a grown-up soft drink, so be careful. It goes down easy, making it very easy to overdo it.

Since I’ve been working hard on my health, I have to say, a good-tasting mixer is a welcome addition to our bar for weekend evenings.  

Where to Purchase Be Mixed

You can purchase Be Mixed from their website, here. You can also find Be Mixed in grocery and liquor stores (many Whole Foods stores carry it), and you can find it at restaurants and bars. *Affiliate links*

Save $5 On Your First Order! Use code “Welcome” at checkout.



This is 40

So, a few weeks ago, I turned 40.

Forty. 4-0.

It’s so strange. 

For one, I do not, at all, feel like I’m forty. I can still remember being a lot younger and thinking “gosh, forty…that’s so OLD!!!” I, for one, definitely do not think that I am old. I mean, I just had a baby like six months ago. By the same token, I have a kid who moved off to college at the end of the summer. 

It’s so strange. 

Of course, in true fashion to my birthday, I was sick with an icky cold, so it took me a few days to come here and update things. 

Celebrate Good Times

For my birthday, we did a lot of fun things. We ate at one of my favorite local restaurants, George’s Bistro. I had their French onion soup, and it was delicious. It paired well with the wine we selected. I also had their Steak Frites, also supremely delicious. I was so full afterward, that I couldn’t finish my dinner. Yay leftovers!

After George’s, we went to a place I’ve been wanting to explore, Dockum Apothecary. 

Before I tell you more about what Dockum is, let me tell you a little bit about what Dockum was. The Dockum Drug Store was one of the sites of the civil rights movement here in Wichita, Kansas. A sit-in protest began July 19, 1958 at the counter at The Dockum Drug Store when Black people gathered to protest the store’s refusal to serve their Black patrons. See, back then, Wichita was super-segregated (I actually have noticed that there is still a lot of segregation here, particularly along economic lines and job types), and a lot of places around the city would be “whites only.” A group of students sat quietly at the store’s counter, waiting to be served, every day for three weeks until finally the manager ordered his staff to serve the students. The sit in went a long way for desegregating many businesses across Kansas. There’s now a pretty awesome 20-foot bronze sculpture commemorating the awesome students who participated in the sit in. 

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So,  somehow, I stumbled across an article reviewing a Speakeasy-style bar hidden downtown.  The Ambassador is a hotel downtown that is housed in the restored Union National Bank Building – and  – Dockum Drug Store. In the basement of The Ambassador is Dockum Apothecary.  They serve alcohol and bar eats, and boy is it a neat place to go. Their cocktails are finely crafted takes on old classics. I had The Smoking Gun and The Duke of Earl cocktails. They were amazing. So good. If you live locally or you visit Wichita, you really ought to check them out. It was a lot of fun.

Running and Wine Tasting

After long last, I’ve re-taken up running – YAY! I joined a local running group that does couch to 5-k training. I’m really really excited about this. I have three races coming up – yipes! So my training program began the day after my birthday, and it was good to be moving again. I’m looking forward to running more and getting this extra baby weight off so that running is easier on my body and so that I can keep up with my three small goobers (and the big one who is off at college too). 

After the run, we came home, goofed off a bit, dropped small people with grandparents, and headed out to go taste some wine. YES! Wine! Kansas does have some wineries, and we decided that we wanted to try them out. We went to two: Wheat State Wine Company and Grace Hill Winery. I have to say, I was impressed with both. I was kind of expecting Kansas wine to taste like jam, to be honest, but the wines were good. I’ll be writing more specifics about them soon enough. For now, check out the photos I took while embarking on our tasting trip.

Wheat State Wine Company



Grace Hill Winery

Planning on a Good Year

In addition to picking up running again, I’ve been working on planning a lot more for my own success. In fact, I got these supplies from Happy Planner and Erin Condren (affiliate link) to help me do that. I’m looking forward to sharing more about how I’m going to go about using multiple planners soon. 

So that’s about what’s been happening here. I turned 40, the kids are all growing up more and more, I’m running, I’m planning, I’m doing. 

How are things on your end of the spectrum? Don’t be afraid to say “hi” in the comments!

Book Review: We Need to Talk by Celeste Headlee

I can’t say how many times I’ve been in a conversation where either I don’t feel like I’m being heard or I realize that I didn’t hear a single thing the person talking just said. I hate admitting that, but it’s kind of a fact of life. Sometimes, I sit there, and someone is talking, and my mind just has wandered down the road a bit and is thinking about other things. I think it happens to all of us, no matter how vigilant we try to be to guard against it. Sometimes, I’ve poured my heart out or spoken about some great idea I’ve had – only to realize that the person may have been sitting there, but my words weren’t heard at all. It’s frustrating, but it’s also human. Celeste Headlee noticed these trends, and wanted to combat them head-on in her book, We Need to Talk. 

This book outlines how we can be better conversationalists – rather than being just communicators. Headlee wants us to really be present for the conversations we’re having with others, and she wants us to have meaningful connections with those around us. She notes that multitasking while conversing is undermining our relationships, and cites research that even the mere presence of a cell phone undermines our relationships:

“The researchers concluded that the presence of a cell phone hurt the quality of the conversation and the strength of the connection between the people talking. With a cell phone just sitting in the room! Think of all the times you’ve sat down to have lunch with a friend or colleague and set your phone on the table. You might have felt virtuous because you didn’t pick it up to check your e-mail, but your ignored messages were still undermining your connection with the person sitting across from you.” (27)

I don’t know about you, but I’d love to have more meaningful conversations with those I care about. I’d like to really be present for those I’m around as we all are on borrowed time and none of us is guaranteed tomorrow. We Need to Talk is an excellent resource guiding us in making our interactions with others much more meaningful. 

About We Need to Talk

• Hardcover: 272 pages
• Publisher: Harper Wave (September 19, 2017)


In this urgent and insightful book, public radio journalist Celeste Headlee shows us how to bridge what divides us–by having real conversations


“We Need to Talk is an important read for a conversationally-challenged, disconnected age. Headlee is a talented, honest storyteller, and her advice has helped me become a better spouse, friend, and mother.” (Jessica Lahey, author of New York Times bestseller The Gift of Failure)

Today most of us communicate from behind electronic screens, and studies show that Americans feel less connected and more divided than ever before. The blame for some of this disconnect can be attributed to our political landscape, but the erosion of our conversational skills as a society lies with us as individuals.

And the only way forward, says Headlee, is to start talking to each other. In We Need to Talk, she outlines the strategies that have made her a better conversationalist—and offers simple tools that can improve anyone’s communication. For example:

  • BE THERE OR GO ELSEWHERE. Human beings are incapable of multitasking, and this is especially true of tasks that involve language. Think you can type up a few emails while on a business call, or hold a conversation with your child while texting your spouse? Think again.
  • CHECK YOUR BIAS. The belief that your intelligence protects you from erroneous assumptions can end up making you more vulnerable to them. We all have blind spots that affect the way we view others. Check your bias before you judge someone else.
  • HIDE YOUR PHONE. Don’t just put down your phone, put it away. New research suggests that the mere presence of a cell phone can negatively impact the quality of a conversation.

Whether you’re struggling to communicate with your kid’s teacher at school, an employee at work, or the people you love the most—Headlee offers smart strategies that can help us all have conversations that matter.

Purchase Links

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About Celeste Headlee

Celeste Headlee is the host of the daily news show On Second Thought on Georgia Public Broadcasting. She has spent more than a decade with National Public Radio and has been a host for Public Radio International since 2008. Celeste has appeared on CNN, the BBC, PBS, and MSNBC. She’s also a classically trained soprano who doesn’t get enough time to sing anymore. She has one son and one rescue dog, and lives in Atlanta, Georgia.

Find out more about Celeste at her website, and connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

Wine Down Box Review

Wine Down Box Review*This post contains affiliate links. Should you make a purchase after clicking on a link, I will receive compensation at no additional cost to you. All opinions in this post are my own.*

I’ve tried more than a few wine box subscriptions. The quality and presentation of said boxes can vary widely, so I’m always really excited when I come across a subscription box that I’m happy to recommend to others. Recently, through the ShareASale program, I was offered the opportunity to try out the Wine Down Box, and I was gifted a one-month subscription. 

Wine Down Box Packaging and Presentation

Wine Down Box Review

The Wine Down Box arrived still cold.

The box didn’t ship until October, because the creators of Wine Down Box wanted to ensure safe shipping of their products. The box arrived in a temperature controlled bag, inside the box. When I opened the box, everything was still cold. I was really impressed with that. When I removed the actual box from the packaging materials, I was really impressed with the presentation. This makes a nice gift. The items are in a black, sturdy box that one could use for storing mementos in later (or is it just me who upcycles everything?). There is packaging material that protects the wine bottle during shipping to ensure that nothing breaks in that process. 

What the Wine Down Box Included

The box had a bottle of wine – in this case, Cardella Winery’s 2011 Merlot. It also included Barolo Salami from Alle-Pia Fine Cured Meats, Peppercorn Garlic Cheddar from Plymouth Artisan Cheese, and some snacking crisps made of GMO-free wheat. There was also a sheet with tasting notes and information about why the proprietors paired the wine with the cheese and meat they chose. 

Tasting Notes

Wine Down Box ReviewOverall, this was a spectacular pairing. I really, really enjoyed trying it out with Wining Husband. Here are the notes from our taste test.

2011 Merlot from Cardella Winery Mendota, California (Approx. $18)

 This wine is six years old, but it has aged really, really well. It has a slightly green feel to it. On the nose, it was wet burning wood, sea air, and sour cherries. After a swirl, and a sip, you could taste pepper and fire as well as a note of hatch chilies. The wine was very smooth with a light body. It was a very nice Merlot. The grapes were hand harvested, and only 4650 bottles were produced. 

The winery is owned by the Cardella family, whose own history with winemaking dates back to 1902 when Carlo Cardella emigrated from Marlia, Italy to Firebough, California. You can taste the long history of family wine-crafting in each sip of this finely-crafted wine. 

Bolero Salami from Alle-Pia Fine Cured Meats (Approx. $12)

This salami was handcrafted using Barolo Wine and fresh spices. The tasting notes tell the story that this traditional artisan salami was first made in Piemonte in Northern Italy. It wasn’t greasy or salty. You could taste the quality of the ingredients that went into making it.  It brought out the pepper and hatch chili notes in the Merlot, and overall, it was a nice pairing with the wine

Peppercorn Garlic Cheddar from Plymouth Artisan Cheese (Approx. $10)

My goodness was this good. It was spicy and just delicious. It paired wonderfully with everything. Of course, I love cheese, but this is a very special cheese. It brought out the smokey flavors in the wine. 

Nita Chips – GMO Free Flattened Wheat  Bread Crackers ($8)

The Nita Chips were light, crisp, and not intrusive on the other flavors. They brought out notes of clove and spice as well as red current from the 2011 Cardella Winery Merlot. They were a fine accompaniment to the rest of the items in the Wine Down Box.

Wine Down Box Verdict

For a month-by-month subscription, the Wine Down Box costs $70. The total approximate cost of the items in the box (without shipping included from the separate vendors) was $48, meaning $22 applies toward shipping, the beautiful packaging, and the convenience of their well-thought-out curation. 3-month subscriptions cost $204 (making each month cost $68), 6-month subscriptions cost $390 (for a $65 a month cost), and the year-long subscription is the best value at $756 (just $63 per monthly box). For the quality of wine and pairings, as well as the beautiful box presentation and the quality shipping packaging, this is a very nice value and would be a nice way to treat yourself or provide for a very nice gift. 

Subscribe to the Wine Down Box Today. Use code NEW5WDB to save $5 off any order for new subscribers through October 31 or SHOP35WDB to save $35 on orders of $450+ through November 4th. 



Book Review: Dryland by Nancy Stearns Bercaw

Alcoholism is a killer. I know it’s ironic to write that statement on a blog I started to talk about wine tasting and wine pairing recipes. (And I do want to get back to the original purpose of this blog – and I will.) But I’ve watched too many people throw away lives on alcohol, and there can be a very fine line between drinking irresponsibly from time-to-time and outright alcohol addiction. 

I hate to admit that I can relate to Nancy Stearns Bercaw’s story in Dryland. But I can, a little bit. When I was a philosophy major, when I was a philosophy grad student working on my Ph.D.,  I knew who I was. It was easy. I was a single mom and a philosopher. Those two things kept coming to a head, though, and eventually, I made made a decision to leave graduate school and pursue another path.

At first, it was “easy.” I threw myself into an unhealthy relationship head first, I started writing professionally, I mommed so hard. That relationship came to a head, and I got safe. Writing took off for me in a big way around the same time. Life hasn’t slowed down since. I met the love of my life, got married, had three more kids, sent the big guy off to college, and I feel like it’s been a total whirlwind! In fact, it can feel like I’m flailing about trying to regain balance and figure out who I am as mom of four. I can see where someone might turn to alcohol to escape the deep existential questions that come up when you’re trying to find a new “box” for yourself. Especially when everything has happened so quickly – even when that “everything” is all good stuff.

Of course, because I’m breastfeeding, and because with three people under the age of four you always have to be on, I drink very, very rarely.

For Bercaw, though, once she left the swimming lanes, she wasn’t quite sure who she was. She fell into the alcoholic spiral and became dependent on the drug to handle life. It isn’t until she realizes that things are out of control that she starts to reign it in and that’s where her memoir Dryland, comes into play.  It’s at times a tough book to read but at the same time, it’s worth making the journey through the book with Bercaw’s words. 

About Dryland

• Paperback: 256 pages
• Publisher: Grand Harbor Press (April 18, 2017)

For swimming champion Nancy Stearns Bercaw, the pool was a natural habitat. But on land, she could never shake the feeling of being a fish out of water. Starting at age two, Nancy devoted her life to swimming, even qualifying for the 1988 Olympic Trials in the fifty-meter freestyle event. But when she hung up her cap and goggles after college, she was confronted with a different kind of challenge: learning who she was out of the lanes.

In this honest, intimate memoir, Nancy reflects on her years wandering the globe, where tragic events and a lost sense of self escalate her dependence on booze. Thirty-three years after her first sip of alcohol, the swimmer comes to a stunning realization while living with her husband and son in Abu Dhabi—she’s drowning in the desert. Nancy looks to the Bedouin people for the strength to conquer one final opponent: alcohol addiction.


“A brave, honest, adventurous memoir that keeps you turning pages as Bercaw travels around the world and rediscovers what it really means to win…at life.” —Leigh Newman, author of Still Points North

Purchase Links

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About Nancy Stearns Bercaw

Writer and national champion swimmer Nancy Stearns Bercaw is a seventeen-time NCAA All-American athlete and was inducted into the University of South Florida’s Athletic Hall of Fame in 2009. Her writing has appeared in publications around the world, including the New York Times, the Huffington Post, the Korea HeraldU.S. News & World Report, Abu Dhabi’s Tempo magazine, and In addition to Dryland: One Woman’s Swim to Sobriety, she is the author of Brain in a Jar: A Daughter’s Journey Through Her Father’s Memory and a contributor to Chicken Soup for the Soul: Living with Alzheimer’s and Other Dementias. She lives in Vermont with her husband and son.

Find out more about Nancy at her website, and connect with her on Twitter and Facebook.

Book Review: It’s Messy by Amanda de Cadenet

Life is rough sometimes. It’s messy. It’s hard. People fail. People struggle along until they succeed. 

Right now, my life is colored by the navy blue glasses of postpartum depression where everything seems so tough and one action can send me into a spiral of anxiety. It’s one of the weirdest things, PPD. Here you are with the sweetest, most wonderful little tiny person – but you’re feeling like crud. I mean… but it’s not about me. At least, not this post. This post is about Amanda de Cadenet’s It’s Messy and how she weaves together essays about her own messy life in a way to make her stories relevant to women reading her book.

De Cadenet weaves her stories together in a candid manner that makes for easy – and fun – reading about not so easy or fun topics. Chapters like “How to Parent in the Time of Trump” go deeper into some of the conflicting situations that women find themselves in. I am certain I’ve read her essays on Huffington Post and in other places, and I’ve always enjoyed her writing style. It’s Messy is an essya collection you don’t want to miss. 

About It’s Messy

• Hardcover: 224 pages
• Publisher: Harper Wave (September 19, 2017)

In this deeply personal collection of essays, creator of the The Conversation Amanda de Cadenet shares the hard-won advice and practical insights she’s gained through her experiences as businesswoman, friend, wife, and mother.

Amanda is on a mission to facilitate conversations that allow all women to be seen, heard, and understood. Through her multimedia platform The Conversation, she interviews some of today’s most bad ass women—from Hillary Clinton to Lady Gaga—in no-holds-barred conversations that get to the heart of what means to be female. Now, in It’s Messy, Amanda offers readers an extension of that conversation, inviting them into her life and sharing her own story.

From childhood fame to a high-profile marriage (and divorce) to teen motherhood to the sexism that threatened to end her career before it started, Amanda shares the good, the bad, and the messy of her life, synthesizing lessons she’s learned along the way. Through it all, she offers an original perspective as a feminist on the front lines of celebrity culture. Edgy, irreverent, poignant and provocative, It’s Messy addresses the issues, concerns, and experiences relevant to women today.

Purchase Links

HarperCollins | Amazon | Barnes & Noble

About Amanda de Cadenet

Amanda de Cadenet is a creative force with a lifelong career in the media. She began as a host on British television at the age of fifteen and became a sought-after photographer shortly after—as a result her impressive photography career already spans nearly twenty years. She is the youngest woman ever to shoot a Vogue cover and has photographed many of the most influential figures in popular and political culture. As a media entrepreneur, Amanda is the creator of The Conversation, a series that showcases her in-depth interviews on real topics with celebrated women. Whether it’s in conversations with Lady Gaga, Sarah Silverman, Zoe Saldana, Chelsea Handler, or Gwyneth Paltrow, or in discussions with devoted followers of her social channels, Amanda delivers an honest and authentic voice. The series has aired in eighteen countries and is featured online, with over ten million viewers. In January 2016, Amanda conducted an exclusive one-on-one interview with presidential candidate Secretary Clinton. In February 2016, Amanda launched #Girlgaze, a digital media company utilizing user submitted content and highlighting the work of women Gen Z photographers and directors.

Find out more about Amanda at her website, and connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube.

Book Blitz: Diomere’s Exile

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We are delighted to announce the PRE-ORDER AVAILABILITY of Diomere’s Exile by Sabrina A. Fish. Check it out and reserve your copy today.
Official release date: September 29, 2017.
Diomere's Exile
Series: The Gate Keeper Chronicles Book 1
Genre: Fantasy Romance
Publisher: The Wild Rose Press
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An exiled woman seeking redemption, and the man who distracts her from finding it.
Five Gates. Five Sisters. Five Very Different Men.
Once there were two worlds connected by five magical gates. Then the Gate Keepers closed the gates and disappeared. The Gate Keepers have returned.
Nadia de Quinones was exiled when her nephew, the crown-prince was abducted on her watch. She’ll let nothing stand in the way of her redemption, not even discovering her heartbonded and a connection to an ancient magical gate.
Lord Gregor Cyrene is sworn to protect his country’s royal heirs. After the youngest prince’s life is threatened, Gregor sets out to discover who is responsible and suspects the answer lies with Nadia.
When fate forces their competing goals to align, neither are prepared for the irresistible attraction between them. Can they see beyond their pasts and a millennia old hate between their people? Or will they continue to distrust, allowing those plotting against them to win?


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2 Diomere’s Exile eBooks
3 Mystery Prizes
Contest runs from August 29 – October 16, 2017.

About Sabrina A. Fish

Sabrina A. Fish

Sabrina A. Fish lives in Oklahoma with her husband, son, and two cats, where she owns a trophy company and collects names for her novels from lists of award’s recipients. She loves all things chocolate and her husband is sweet enough to never let the candy dish near her computer become empty.
She loves and advocates being involved in the local writing community, and is President for the 2018 Oklahoma Writers’ Federation, Inc (OWFI).
She is an annual featured speaker at The Rose State Writing Conference and has been a panelist at Wizard World Comic Con.
Born and raised in Oklahoma, she considers the three years she spent in a Texas high school to be a short trip down the rabbit hole that ended at graduation. She returned to Oklahoma where she received her Bachelor’s degree in Political Science from the University of Oklahoma. BOOMER SOONER.
When she isn’t writing & promoting her novels or running her company, she can be found reading, scrapbooking, or spending quality time with her family.
To find out more about Sabrina and her books, visit her website
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About The Wild Rose Press

The Wild Rose Press

The Wild Rose Press has been publishing electronic and print titles of fiction for more than nine years. Our titles span the sub-genre spectrum from sweet to sensually erotic romance in all lengths to mainstream and womens fiction. To check out the latest and upcoming releases and more, visit
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